What's The Payoff?

Ever felt trapped in a situation with no clear way out, wondering what secret benefits keep you stuck? Join me as I unravel the hidden dynamics of our minds inspired by neuro-linguistic programming. I share a poignant story about my friend who remains tethered to a controlling relationship despite her unhappiness—illustrating how fear, the subtle allure of sympathy, or other hidden payoffs might be at play. Explore the idea that our brains are too clever to engage in seemingly negative scenar...